In Vietnam, “the baby has a fever because of teething” is a phrase so familiar that parents hear it and settle down to wait. That is the most dangerous thing about teething. According to MedlinePlus, teething does not cause a fever and does not cause diarrhoea; if your child has a fever or diarrhoea and you are worried, contact your child's health care provider. Which means that when a child really does have a fever, the tooth does not explain it, and whatever is causing it has not been found.
Recognising it: what teething looks like
Teething is normal, not an illness. Know its picture, so that when something ELSE comes into it, you see it at once.
- According to NHS the signs of teething are: the gum where a tooth is coming through is sore and red; more dribbling than usual; chewing and gnawing on anything within reach; one flushed cheek; a rash on the face; rubbing at an ear; being more fretful than usual; not sleeping well. MedlinePlus adds a child refusing food.
- According to NHS the temperature may rise slightly but stays BELOW 38°C. That figure is not a reassurance threshold — it is a line: above it, stop blaming the tooth.
- According to MedlinePlus, teeth usually start to come through when a child is six to eight months old, with all twenty baby teeth in place by thirty months.
Easily confused: fever and loose stools are NOT caused by teething
According to NHS, some people think teething causes symptoms such as diarrhoea, but there is no evidence to prove it. MedlinePlus puts it more bluntly: teething does not cause fever, it does not cause diarrhoea. The rule: coinciding in time is not causing. Fever in children, and the red flags of fever, already have their own article on this site — that is where to read the list of danger signs carefully.
What to do now
- Wipe the dribble. According to NHS, if teething is making your baby dribble more than usual, gently wiping their face helps prevent a rash.
- Rub the gums. According to the US FDA, if your child's gums are swollen and sore, gently rub the gums with your finger; MedlinePlus adds that a clean, cool, damp cloth can be used as well.
- Give a teething ring to chew. According to NHS it gives your baby something safe to chew, eases the discomfort and takes their mind off the pain. According to FDA, choose a FIRM rubber one, not the sort with liquid inside.
- Cool the teething ring in the fridge compartment. According to NHS, never put a teething ring in the freezer: once it is frozen solid it will damage your baby's gums.
- According to MedlinePlus, give your child cool soft foods such as apple sauce or yoghurt.
- Keep a day-by-day note of where the gum is swollen and how the child is feeding and sleeping; take the child's health record book with you to any appointment.
Things you must NOT do
- Do NOT tie a teething ring or anything else around your child's neck: NHS calls it a choking hazard, and MedlinePlus says the same.
- Do NOT rub gels or pain medicines on the gums of a child under two. According to MedlinePlus, gum gels are only for children aged two and over, and should not be used if your child is younger than that. According to the US FDA, products containing benzocaine can cause a serious, sometimes fatal condition called methemoglobinemia, in which the oxygen-carrying capacity of red blood cells falls sharply.
- Do NOT give a child aspirin. According to MedlinePlus, never give your child aspirin, and do not place it on the gums or teeth either; and do not rub alcohol or spirits on your child's gums.
- Do NOT use homeopathic teething tablets or drops. According to the US FDA, this group of products can be dangerous for children.
- Do NOT bring a fever down and then wait until morning because you think it is the tooth. A fever medicine makes a child more comfortable but does not touch whatever is causing the fever.
When you must go to hospital
GO TO EMERGENCY CARE or call 115 (the emergency number in Vietnam) NOW if your child has any of the following: choking, something stuck in the throat, no sound when crying, or anything in the mouth or around the neck; lips, skin or fingertips turning grey or blue; rapid breathing, laboured breathing, the chest sucking in; drowsy and hard to wake, not rousing however much you call, or floppy; seizures; refusing the breast completely, unable to drink anything; a fever in a baby under three months old; a gel or any medicine has just been put on the gums and the child has gone pale, is breathing fast, is listless. — BE SEEN WITHIN 24–72 HOURS if: your child has a fever, loose stools, vomiting, a cough or a runny nose — not caused by teething, so the cause needs finding; a gum swollen in one spot, with pus or bleeding; ulcers or white patches in the mouth; a child crying inconsolably, feeding much less, and not improving. — If you are unsure, ring and ask before deciding on your own.
The first tooth is through: what to start doing
- According to CDC, before your child has teeth, wipe the gums with a soft clean cloth in the morning after the first feed and again just before bed; once teeth have come through, move to a small-headed soft-bristled brush with plain water.
- According to CDC, for children under two, ask a doctor or dentist before using fluoride toothpaste.
- According to CDC, take your child to a dentist before their first birthday so that anything abnormal is picked up early, and ask about fluoride varnish as soon as the first tooth is through.
To be clear about our part: Y Te Xanh (GreenCare) does not take on home care for newborns and small children, and does not treat children's teeth — that belongs to paediatricians and dentists. What we can do is a remote consultation by video call so you can decide between being seen now and waiting for an appointment; it is not a substitute for your child's routine checks. With a sign in the box above, go in first and ring afterwards.
The signs of teething, the below-38°C mark, teething rings and the freezer follow the NHS page on teething. Teething not causing fever or diarrhoea, the age range, gum gels and aspirin follow MedlinePlus. Children's oral care follows the public materials of the US CDC; benzocaine, rubbing the gums and teething jewellery follow the US FDA. Citing CDC here does not imply that CDC endorses Y Te Xanh or our services.
Need personalised advice for your loved one? Call our hotline 094 368 81 15 (24/7) — calling to ask a question or to book costs nothing. GreenCare has doctors who come to examine, nurses who carry out doctor's orders (injections, infusions, dressing changes), remote consultation by video call, and a review of the medicines you are taking; an in-depth remote consultation, or any one after the first, is a paid service. For children we take examination and acute care only — not long-term care at home, and not newborns or expectant mothers. We confirm we have staff in your area and provide transparent pricing before we begin.
Sources
- CDC — Oral Health Tips for Children
- NHS — Teething


