Most bouts of acute diarrhoea settle on their own. What makes it dangerous is not the number of trips to the toilet but water and salts going out faster than they are being replaced. So this article does not teach counting — it teaches recognising dehydration.
Recognise dehydration, do not count trips
According to NIDDK, diarrhoea means passing loose or watery stools more often than is normal for that person — there is no single number. The measure at home is whether the person is holding on to fluid. In adults, the signs are:
- Passing urine less often than usual, and the urine is darker — the earliest and easiest sign to follow.
- Marked thirst, a dry mouth, a dry throat.
- Tiredness, dizziness, light-headedness on standing, a fast heartbeat.
- Skin on the back of the hand pinched gently and released goes back slowly.
- Sunken eyes or sunken cheeks.
In young children and older people the signs are different:
- Young children: a dry nappy for several hours running or very little urine, crying without tears, a dry mouth, a sunken soft spot in babies who still have one, drowsiness or unusual fretfulness, refusing the breast or refusing to drink.
- Older people: according to NIDDK, a change in mental state — less alert, loss of energy, easily irritated — is a reason for a doctor to see them now. Do not put it down to age.
Two things are easily misread. Going many times while still drinking and still passing urine normally is less worrying than going a few times while unable to keep fluid down. And diarrhoea during or after a course of antibiotics should not be assumed to be something eaten — according to NIDDK, antibiotics are among the medicines that cause diarrhoea.
What to do straight away
- Replacing fluid is the most important thing. According to CDC, over-the-counter oral rehydration solution helps most in mild dehydration. How to mix it, and why mixing it stronger is dangerous, is covered in a separate article on oral rehydration salts on this site.
- Drink small sips, continuously — according to NHS, the more nauseated you are, the smaller the sips need to be; drinking a glass in one go usually brings on more vomiting.
- According to NHS: rest at home; eat when you can, avoiding greasy and spicy dishes; a breastfed or bottle-fed baby carries on as normal, and if the baby is vomiting, feed smaller amounts more often.
- Anyone who is vomiting or has diarrhoea should not cook, should not share food and should not care for others — according to CDC, wait at least two days after the symptoms have gone. And according to CDC, hand sanitiser works poorly against norovirus: hands must be washed with soap.
- Write it down: the last time urine was passed, how many bouts of vomiting, whether there is blood in the stool, and what medicines are being taken including antibiotics — these are the first questions a doctor asks.
What you must not do
- Do not buy antibiotics yourself. According to CDC, antibiotics do not help treat norovirus infection because they kill bacteria, not viruses. Viruses are a very common cause of diarrhoea. Whether antibiotics are needed is the doctor's decision after an examination.
- Do not take anti-diarrhoeal medicine on your own when there is blood in the stool or a fever. According to NIDDK, doctors usually do not recommend the over-the-counter kind for infants, children, or anyone with blood in the stool or a fever; according to NHS, do not give it to a child under 12. The name you will see most often is loperamide.
- Do not use fizzy drinks or fruit juice to replace fluid: according to NHS, they can make diarrhoea worse.
- Do not make up formula weaker than usual; according to NHS, keep it at the normal strength.
- Do not call for a drip at home instead of going in when any of the signs in the box below are present.
After bloody diarrhoea: the sign most easily missed
According to CDC, infection with Shiga toxin-producing E. coli can lead to haemolytic uraemic syndrome (HUS), which causes kidney failure and can be fatal. So once there has been blood in the stool, do not stop watching. According to CDC, the signs of HUS are:
- Passing very little urine, or none at all.
- Loss of pink colour in the cheeks and inside the lower eyelids.
- Unexplained bruises or tiny red spots on the skin.
- Blood in the urine.
- Extreme tiredness, or being more easily irritated than usual; reduced alertness.
When you must go to hospital
GO TO EMERGENCY CARE or call 115 (the emergency number in Vietnam) NOW if: any of the HUS signs above appear after a bout of bloody diarrhoea; not a single sip of water stays down, or the vomiting is continuous; there is blood in the vomit, or vomit like coffee grounds; the stool has blood in it, is black, or has pus in it; there is drowsiness, difficulty rousing, confusion or a fit; no urine has been passed for hours; the skin is wrinkled and has lost its spring; the skin, lips or tongue turn blue, grey or mottled; there is marked difficulty breathing; the abdominal pain is severe and sudden, or fixed in one spot and rising; the headache is severe and sudden; there is a stiff neck, dislike of light, or a high fever with a stiff neck; a breastfed baby refuses the breast completely, or a young child has signs of dehydration. — BE SEEN WITHIN 24–72 HOURS if: the diarrhoea or vomiting is not easing and the fever is not coming down; there is weight loss; the diarrhoea began during or after a course of antibiotics; or the person is a young child, an older person, pregnant, or someone with heart, kidney, liver disease, diabetes or a weakened immune system — this group should not wait to see whether it eases. And if signs of dehydration persist despite oral rehydration given correctly, be seen the same day.
Plainly: the cause cannot be found at home, and fluid cannot be replaced once the oral route has stopped working. We offer a remote consultation by video call when you are not sure whether to go in; a doctor comes to the house to take the history, examine, and say clearly which cases must be admitted; a nurse gives fluids by drip as prescribed. A remote consultation is not for someone who is drowsy or having fits — with a sign from the box above, go in first and call afterwards.
This article passes on the recommendations of public health authorities — sources: CDC in the United States, NIDDK at the National Institutes of Health, and NHS in the United Kingdom — and does not replace being examined in person. Citing CDC here does not imply that CDC endorses Y Te Xanh or our services.
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Sources
- CDC — About Norovirus
- NHS — Diarrhoea and vomiting



